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anonymous
writes:I am a married mum, i have been with my husband for over 15 years.Recently i have been chatting to some new found friends on the internet.I have very strong feelings for 2 of them.I feel like i am in love with them.The problem is, they are female too and straight.Am i gay?I am so confused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2008): It may be a phase you never know, when I started to like girls myself I remembered feeling confused and just wished it would go away. The feelings grew stronger with one girl and there was no turning back, it went from fantasies to realities and I knew I was gay by then. I met other gay women, all from different walks of life, and only a few were mothers. There were even grandma's believe it or not.
Now, you have to think about your children, if you attempt anything this will affect them a lot and having affairs is wrong you know that. Maybe you should find people in similar situations to talk with and get a better understanding of yourself. I know what it is like to feel confused, you just got to find it within yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2008): Don’t be unfaithful to your husband. I notice lots of women have times when they feel like trying sex with other women. It is normal. Why don’t you think about exploring this as fantasy and maybe sharing the odd film with your husband. He would probably like it too.
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