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writes:I dated this guy on and off for about 3 years and we broke up 2 years ago. The problem is I can't seem to let him go. I ended things and we've remained freinds. I was the first to move on and get someone else but when he recently also moved on I was devastated. I'm so jealous and it hurts more than I'd like to admit. Am I feeling this way because I still love him or am I just being silly?
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reader, didda123  +, writes (26 January 2009):
 Thank you for your comments they mean a lot to me and i'm pleased i could help. Take care x
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey guys. jus wanna thank u 4 takin the time to give me some advice. esp dida123, u helped a lot. still working through it but i'm now quite glad he isnt moping over me anymore. i care about him so much and deep down i want him to be happy even if it aint with me
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reader, didda123 +, writes (19 January 2009):
If he was your first real love then he will always have a place in your heart. You will never forget the good times and the memories you have had with him we always remember the good times.
It was easy for you when you broke up because it was your decision to end the relationship and whilst he was on his own he was still yours in your head.
Now he has moved on it painful for you because you did love him then and you will always care for him but you realise now that someone else has taken your place in his heart and that can be hard to bear but you can try to come to terms with it by realising that you no longer wanted him and he can't live a life on his own so it is in his best interests.
I'm sure he still feels for you but he has had to move on.
Are you happy in your present relationship though because if you truly were i don't think you would be having these feelings - you let him go for a reason just remember that.
I hope this helps take care x
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reader, nokutenda +, writes (19 January 2009):
It hurts to know that someone who once loved you is loving someone new.it could be that you still love him but l think you should concentrate on yo current relationship because you kept breaking up with your ex which means there was a problem.you will get used to the idea of him dating someone else,give it time.good luck musikana
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