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writes:Hello everyone, i have a question that i hope you guys can clarify for me. I recently hooked up with a guy who's Grandma is my Grandmas sister. His dad is my dads cousin... what does that make us?? Cousins? i really like him and im scared of disapproval from my family.. but also if its wrong i dont want to continue seeing him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2010): I'm surprised that the responses below are so casual about it. Myself I think it is ok as long as it is ok with you, your family, him, and his family.
But for me... I wouldn't do it. I think it might be because I grew up with my second/third cousins and they are like my family so I wouldn't feel comfortable "getting close" to any of them because, I call them my cousins.
Talk to your family about it and see what they think.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (13 December 2010):
 You are second cousins, as the common blood ancestor is a great-grandparent. I doubt people would have a problem with it.
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reader, longtimer +, writes (13 December 2010):
if you're not sure, ask. it won't be that hard. And if he is, talk to him about it then decide what to do. whatever happens i'm sure you'll be happy in the end.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2010): It makes you about as related to him as you are an random stranger in the street.
He's more like a second or third cousin, basically it would be entirely possible for you have lived your life and never have met him, or even knew he existed.
My last name's Flynn, should I then avoid anyone with that same last name, be we related or not?
You are so distant that genetically speaking, you bare almost no relation to each other.
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