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writes:I am in love with a twenty something female. She is beautiful! Only thing is, I am in my 40's. I think of her all day long, and when I look at her pictures, I just want to spend time with her and talk about whatever she wishes. I long to kiss her as well, she has beautiful lips, and beautiful eyes ! Only thing is, I have not yet met her in person. Am I crazy for thinking this way ? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2010): You need to just chill and maybe be casual friends with her or something like that. Encourage her to find a guy her own age, and one that is working and responsible. One that she and her parents will be happy with.
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (7 August 2010):
 Your both adults. If you are both single, then arrange to meet her...only then will you know which way it's going to go.
I'm not a lover of online romances, I think they can lead to a lot of heartache and dissapointment, but we are all human , so we are doomed to keep trying until we find 'the one'. Building up a mental picture of someone based on a 2D picture and a few conversations is natural, but until you meet, your not going to know if you can take things further.
Meet her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010): We have been talking already by telephone. I gave her my number, and said if you want to call, I leave that up to you. How do you know it is lust? You don't know my heart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010): The pictures was from an online dating site that we are both members of. How else would I get the pictures ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010): I think you are old enough to know if you like this person for who they are.
Problem is, you have never met this person to truly identify your feelings for this person. Question? How did you get pictures of her? That is kind of creepy to me! Where did you see this girl? I think you first ned to make contact with this person first, by introducing yourself. See how things go from there.
And looks are not everything either.!
Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): You are old enough to know that what you are feelings is NOT love, but rather LUST. You don't know this woman to love her as you have not met her or spent any quality time with her. You are probably obessessed with how she looks, how young she is and basically she is somebody "new." Act like a grown mature man and don't be carried away by your lustful and wishful thinking.
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