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writes:I work in a shop and for the last 5 months a guy (paul)has made a point of coming on my checkout every time I work. he tells me how gorgeous i am and how lucky my boyfriend is. my boyfriend finished with me 2 months ago - I told paul that I'm no longer with him, he said he was mad to let me go. two weeks ago I gave paul my number- theres's clearly a lot of chemisry. we met up 4 days in a row and I can't stop thinking about him- it's not a rebound. Its going fast and we can't get enough of each other sexually. he told me we can have fun but he won't be telling me he loves me. He always says I'm the most beautiful girl he's ever seen. I thought he was falling for me but yesterday he said 'do u think he could make this last 2 months'? I asked 'why two months'? and he said that's how long these things usually last!!' I told him he's enough for me, he said 'for now but we won't be picking out curtains'. am I purely being used or is there a chance he likes me. I'm currently abroad and called him today- he was with his friends and within 4 minutes told me to cut the call- it wasn't costing him anything. Reply to this Question
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reader, serenity80 +, writes (22 August 2011):
That guy seems a complete dick to me. There is no way any guy who was interesting in seeing a girl as girlfriend material would say those kind of things.
If it was a relationship you were after, you should have waited before getting sexual so you would have had time to work out what his intentions were.
Don't fall for the "you're so beautiful" line, there are millions of beautiful looking girls out there. Either keep things light and fun with him, or break it off with him. Other wise you're probably going to set yourself up to get hurt and feel horribly used.
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (22 August 2011):
 Don't fool yourself. He has made it quite clear this is no more than a temporary fling. "Do you think we can make this last two months? That's how long these things usually last" and he said you're enough for him for now, but we won't be picking out curtains.
So there is your answer - straight from the horse's mouth.
And, as if that wasn't enough, when you phoned him from abroad HE told YOU to end the call after 4 minutes - it was YOUR 10p - not his.
Take this opportunity while you're abroad to put him out of your mind and heart and consider it over.
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reader, Battista +, writes (22 August 2011):
It sounds like he's using you. Certainly you are far more interested in him if you are calling him while you're abroad. Get rid of him and either have a break or find someone who is interested in more than just sex.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (22 August 2011):
 He's using you for sex.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (22 August 2011):
 Sounds a little "fishy" to me, I'd be very careful!
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