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writes:I wonder if i am being too sensitive.. my boyfriend says things to me that i find offensive and disrespectful. He always says things like "i bet you love all the guys you see on the streets and just want to get in their pants and have sex with them" or i had told him i was upset and he said "go find a guy on facebook to talk to about it or go message some guy about it"I dont talk to other guys on facebook or message any other guys. so i find this rude and disrespectful.. am i being stupid?whenever i tell a story he will ask about girls "was she hot?" nd this annoys me alot.. i mean what difference does it make?so he did it tonight and i said if i was asking you "is there hot guys in your uni class?" you would get the shits and he says back "there is lots of guys you would just want to have sex with"i told him i think its disrespectful, can you not talk to me like that and he says "oh my god. its time to go this conversation is over. i can say what ever i want"
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reader, OlSarge  +, writes (26 October 2010):
 Is he less than 25? The younger the man the more of this particular type of jealousy pops up. When I was in my late teens, early 20's I was exactly the same way. Every guy that walked by my GF I was thinking she probably wants to have sex with him. This stems from insecurity more than true jealousy. I always kept my feelings to myself (though I was keeping an eye on her) but I never was verbally or physically abusive about these feelings. In time as I got more self-confidence in myself this stupidity in me went way. Just be careful that the verbal abuse doesn't turn physical because that road is a very short one.
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reader, Cheeks +, writes (3 March 2010):
 My jerk ex used to do the same thing to me. Always suggesting that I'm up to something & that I've got cheating on my mind. Well come to find out, the jackass was just trying to distract me from what he was up to- which was everything he kept accusing me of. Watch out. He's trying to pawn you off on someone else or trying to make you look like the bad guy because he's truly a dog on the inside...if he's anything like my ex. Just dont listen to him & tell him his headgames are hell of obvious. "Don't try to pin your cheating ways on me dude. No matter how much you want me to be the one who's slutting around on facebook or drooling over guys on the street, I'm not. So quit trying to hide behind your guilty accusations & just fess up. If you want your freedom- go for it. I don;t need your lame crap anyway. & grow up!" Thats what I would say. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2010): I think your bf is immature and silly. I am surprised how you can put up with him. No one would blame you if you tell him to get lost.
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (3 March 2010):
 What the hell kind of boyfriend is this...? I don't even know what half of that means, accusing you of wanting to have sex with everyone. Is he insinuating you are a slut? I must be just as "sensitive" as you because every one of those comments would bother me, only I would've dumped the jackass by now. No you are not being sensitive, he is a rude disrespectful guy. And if you are upset he tells you to talk to someone else on facebook about it?? Why the hell are you still with him??? He doesn't care about your feelings and most likely doesn't care about you at all. No boyfriend should ever tell his girlfriend to talk to some one else about their problems, or leave when she is upset. He doesn't seem all that serious about you. Please dump him.
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