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writes:AHH! I dont know what to do! My heart is torn in 2 right now. My husband just told me like 5 min. after new year mark that he is going to join the army! I want him to follow his dreams and I know this is what he wants but I'm so scared! We've already lost quite a few friends in the military and I can't stand the thought of losing him. Our daughter isn't even 1 yet... I want to be supportive of him, but I'm so scared at the same time... am I being to selfish for wanting him home with us rather than following his dream?? Please help I feel going to go crazy!
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reader, littlemomma +, writes (1 January 2009):
littlemomma is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks guys. I have talked with him and he's been playing with the idea since I met him. I know he really wants to do this...I'm just scared. We've already lost several good friends...and I cant bear to think of loosing him.
I told him exactly how I felt but that if this IS what he TRULY wants that I'd support him 'cause I want him to fallow his dreams and goals....I just feel like I"m being a bit selfish.
He's always stood by me with my dreams and goals (even though most dont work out) and I feel really bad about wanting him home instead of off somewhere that i cant fallow....
Thanks for the help though! Really appreciate it!
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reader, Ck1  +, writes (1 January 2009):
hello,i dont think you are being selfish hun,you need to sit down and have a chat with him,you need to tell him that yous have a small daughtertogether and you dont want him to risk his life and miss time with his daughter, if its what he really wants he'll put his family before his dream,goodluck
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