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writes: I went on a date several months ago, where at the end of the night my date and I dry humped only. On the second date, he and I made love in the front seat of my car. On the third date, things got a little more serious and I wore heels only, and engaged in some "unusual" positions. I feel that this is the natural flow of a relationship, I have some friends who have suggested that this is a bit "slutty". I would like to know your honest opinion, too much too fast and slightly or in your opinion, "normal"?
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (8 April 2006):
 i agree with babymama if your sleeping around with a guy from the second date people a opinion of you is going to be slut. people arent goning to think you respect yourself enough. guy may start to think your easy. i think you should slow things down and just take some pride and respect in yourself.
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reader, xXxBabymamaXxX +, writes (4 April 2006):
 Well its not normal to shag everyman you go out with. its dangerous, when a man does it hes a GOD, but when a girl does it shes a slag, slut, hoe!!! This opinion won't change for a while so keep the man keen and don't shag him, its something to look forward too. you said "MADE LOVE" hardley if this was the 2nd date... what do think??? respect yourself, any man shud be lucky to be alone with you ;o) laura, 16
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reader, Sexybum +, writes (4 April 2006):
 To be honest only you can say. It would depend why you were doing it and if you were happy or not. Do you feel comfortable with what has happenned? Are you happy about it and quite content? If you are then I don't see what the problem is!? I don't really know how you class someone a 'slut'. But just because you are enganging in sexual intercourse with someone as your relationship progresses than that does not make you a slut!! It makes you normal!!
It doesn't matter how many times you do it, whatever position you do it in, what you wear, (or what you don;t wear ;-) hehhe), even what you use and you don't use (if you get my drift) as long as you and this guy are happy and not hurting anyone then thats all that matters.
I'm not sure why your friends would react like this, pherhaps they are jealous of you, or maybe shocked if you've never behaved like this before. But that doesn't mean to say you can't. Honestly I think they should leave you alone, its not nice for them to call you names, they should only 'interfere', if you are getting yourself into trouble, or being used or something.
I think t is each to their own, if you are happy with this bloke then tell evferyone else to mind their own business and go have soem fun girl!!!
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