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writes:im 18 yr old n been seeing a 29 year old for ova a year. ive miscarried a baby by him n i love him with all my heart. the nly problem is i dont feel good enuff in bed for him, since we moved in together he seems really lazy not even cookin for himself and im getting really bored i feel i shud be out partying im 18 for god sake. i dint even celebrate my b'day coz i was preggie at the time. i need some help am i being selfish or shud i go and have some fun???
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (5 July 2008):
 Babe you are too young to be tied down to a BOZO like that!!! I have a daughter the same age as you, who goes out and has fun with her friends quite often. I am so sorry to hear about your miscarriage. Have you supported each other since your sad loss of the baby?If he will not buck his ideas up, then I suggest you leave him and get a life of your own.Good luck Hun xx.
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reader, lexilou +, writes (5 July 2008):
 Not selfish you have just realised you want more out of life. Sorry to hear about the miscarriage, maybe it has made you re-evaluate your life and priorities. Go do the things you need to do, you only get one youth and you will regret it and resent him if you dont get to live your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2008): You chose a certain lifestyle and now you decide that it's not for you.When people move in together or get married, their lives change drastically and will never be the same as before. You either re-adjust and both compromise to make it work - or you get out.Fortunately for you, it's not too late. You have no legal commitment, you tried it, didn't like it so go back to being young, free and single and enjoy life again and put all this down to experience.Life's delivered you a hard lesson here, learn from it and good luck for the future!
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