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writes:Ok so I started talking to my middle school crush again. I found him on facebook. We used to have the biggest crush on each other but we were too little to "date" hehe. Anyways I haven't seen him since 7th grade! and we're both 20 now.. we're still young but more wise. Well we started texting each other and he wants to see me and take me out for lunch when I visit. I live in Arizona and he lives in Nevada so its kinda hard to see each other but I told him that I'm planning on moving back to Nevada once school ends in February. I'm a little skeptical though because when we text he's like super flirty and very eager to see me. He says things like "I wish you were here to cuddle with me" (he said that after the FIRST day we exchanged numbers) which is weird to me because we barely started talking like 2 weeks ago and we hardly know each other anymore. Also when we do text it takes him forever to reply back and sometimes he wont text back at all and I wont hear from him for like a day or two. He also calls me "babe" and "love" sometimes. Oh and yesderday when he finally decided to text me.. he just asked when I was going and said that I better visit and how he can't wait to see me.. but then he steered the conversation to sex and was like "we're gonna have some crazy things ahead of us when u come ;)" Is he just being a young guy with too much testosterone? Or does he only want sex? I mean he does compliment me and asks me about my day and says that he'll make time for "us". I just can't seem to read him. Is he playing me? I'm so confused. He's a leo if that helps. Please help give me some insight.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2011): It seems strange to me that years later, out of the blue, he would be so forward with you. If you do visit him, perhaps it's best if it's first in a public place, maybe somewhere where a friend can be nearby.
I don't know that he's playing you, but he's very assuming that you'll be having sex just because you had a crush on him in middle school.
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