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30-35,
anonymous
writes:my boyfriend (ive been with for almost a year) almost constantly talks about his ex... who is for the record: by far prettier than me... and nicer... even tho i lost my v-card to him, and he lost his to me (for the record: i dont want a relationship based only on sex)... im still worried im not as nice, and caring as his ex... and it scares me thinkin he'll leav me for her... cuz i saw her a couple days ago when i was with him... he said "theres my ex!!! very nice ex!!" and i was so jealous... cuz he never tells me im sweet or nice oranything, unless im the first to say hes sweet or something... am i just paranoid? or should i be concerned about this???
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks... I did talk to him about this, and he stopped talking about her permanately, i didnt lay it on him too thick, but it worked.... he bought me a ring.... and everythings going perfect :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2009): you should be concerned, the only reason he is doing that is because he wants to make you jealous. If he has been with you a year he must like you more (so I am sure you are nicer than her) other wise he would try and get back with her! If he is worth it (and of this only you can judge) then you need to tell him to stop talking about her and how it makes you feel...and that it would be nice for you to feel loved and appreciated for once! good luck.
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