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writes:I have been with my gf for five years,over the last year sex has become less and less frequent. She insists it's because she is tired a lot of the time. I've had the feeling there was more to it than this but couldn't be sure. Last Friday she went out for drinks with some workmates,when I picked her she was very drunk. I noticed when we got home she had been wearing hold up stockings and no underwear she says it would ruin the line of her skirt. The next day she mentioned that some guy had remarked that she was carrying some excess weight in her bum,she was quite uupset by this. When I asked her how she had ended up discussing her rear end with this guy she said she couldn't remember. I'm ashamed to admit that I checked her mobile for texts and all had been cleared,normally she has about one hundred messages in her inbox from work. She has previous for cheating on ex boyfriends before but promised she tell me if she was unhappy rather than betray my trust. What do people think am I being paranoid or is my concerrn justified I hope not as I do love her very much.
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reader, Normalguy +, writes (4 November 2008):
Normalguy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you icelordess I took your advice and kept an eye on her and she was testing someone when I walked into the room she tried to hide her phone. It turns out she was texting some guy who has been asking her out. She claims nothing has happened and she was just flattered by his interest,but she kept texting him and kept it hidden from me,I really want to believe her but don't know if I can,it's breaking my heart.
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