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Am I being jealous.....?

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Question - (19 September 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 23 September 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Am I being to jealous when my man looks at other women when I am standing next to him, and he does those double looks when he sees someone attractive?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2008):

But your options aren't just accept or leave. You can tell him how you feel about it and maybe he'll understand? Perhaps he'll make an effort to change?

If he's beyond that, then go ahead and accept it/ leave him.

Good luck!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2008):

Thank you for answering my question, i guess if I want to be with the guy I am going to have to accept it or leave him, which I don't want to do......but who knows if I get tired of it I might.....lol....

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2008):

omg i hate it when guys do that!! It's so inconsiderate and it's part of the reason why girls get so insecure! I guess when my boyfriend does it i just ignore it now because he rarely does but when we first started seeing each other he wouldn't be able to tell me what i was talking about because he was too busy checking out another girl!! I think its a normal thing though and us girls have to live with it. I would if i was you, start checking guys out, but dont make it so obvious lol! just enough so he notices and then if he confronts you about it then you could tell hime how you feel! I made the mistake of shouting OI at him haha!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2008):

If you don't do the same, then I don't think so.

You just want mutual respect.

I would feel the same as you if my boyfriend were to be checking out women in my presence. It just isn't right, though only if you do not do the same - otherwise, you would be acting hypocritically.

I hope this helps you out.

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