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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have spent all my life dating for the wrong reasons and the wrong people. After realizing most of my mistakes, I decided to stay single till I find the right person or feel right at least.I started dating at almost age 18, had only 2 to 3 relationships, and I have been single since I was 18. So it's almost an inexistent relationship life. I have always found my self turned on by boobs and ass and I am a female. I know there are going to be assumptions I am a lesbian. I have never been with a female, I don't even think about it. Could this be the reason why I have had several bad relationships with guys? Maybe I am not wired to be with guys.Now more than ever after watching the Brazillian female team play in the olympics. I think it's safe to say I am comfortable being with a woman but I have no idea what they do or how they have sex. Sometimes (even tho I can still date and get married to a man) I feel it because I have had very toxic relationships that I have opted to try dating females.Can I be enlightened about this? Because for a long time now I am not even interested in meeting any guy not that I don't mind, but I won't go out in the hopes of meeting a guy.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (23 August 2016):
 It is okay to be turned on by both male and female it does not mean that you are a lesbian. Maybe you want to try something new, that is okay to do. Focus on what the person is like and not their gender, get to know someone and figure out if it is worth getting romantically involved with them. Try not to label yourself. I know that it can be confusing when you are looking at women in a sexual way, but don't allow it to be stressful, it is okay to experiment.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (20 August 2016):
 Most people (allegedly) have the ability to connect with males or females on a sexual level. I think, more important than focusing on the gender of the person, you need to focus on the person themselves (regardless of gender) and go for someone you not only fancy physically but also who you like as a person. Then everything will slot into place (no pun intended).
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