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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Am i in the minority here? I get bored of men after a few months.We can email, meet up, text and i keep them at arms length, and then, i just get bored. Everything stops. No more emails, i send a couple of texts when i have nothing else to do, but thats it.I am beginning to get a bit worried? I have no reason to doubt my sexuality, i definately like men, albeit men a bit older than me, but the fact remains, the male species don't hold my attention for very long.Perhaps i am being to choosey, do you think? I like my men to be a bit older, don't mind what weight they are, or their looks, i like them to be educated and able to hold a sensible conversation and have a good sense of humour too.So whats the matter with me. Why do i get so bored of em.Sorry for the ramble. It just puzzles me.Thanks xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008): Hiya,
The prase "I keep them at arms length" makes me wonder if your holding back a bit too much.
It sounds as if your not really letting go when it comes to getting to know these guys. Maybe you should try spending more time with them on your own indoors getting to know them for who they really are, and not just for their persoanality traits.
I also think you need to open up a bit more, let them get to know you a bit more intimately. That doesnt mean that you have to tell them your life story!, but just let them know who your really are deep down and what you expect from life. The rest will come naturally.
But it is likely that you just havent meet the right man too xx.
Good luck
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (19 April 2008):
 No, nothing is wrong with you. You just haven't found the right one yet. I don't know if that is because they are all older men, maybe the intelligent, mature type bore you? It is very possible. Sometimes it is what girls think they want but really they want someone a little more fun than just one who can hold a sensible conversation. I would try dating someone your age who you find very attractive. See if he can keep your interest any better. Most likely it is that you just haven't met the right guy. There is nothing wrong with that, you just happened to get a lot of guys you are really into. Happens to all of us. Also you said you keep them at arms length so you aren't letting any of them really get to you. That is mostly to do with not meeting the right one though. When you meet him you will let him get to know you and really fall hard. Good luck with everything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008): Sometimes it takes a long time to find that special person don't give up you will find him.
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