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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: I live in New York and I met this guy three years ago on vacation in Trinidad and Tobago. We built a relationship, I visited him a few times throughout the years, and we eventually got married in Trinidad. After we got married, I started to see text messages on his cell phone from another woman. He lied to me and said it was nothing. I had to leave and return to New York while he got his things together to move to New York. His relationship continued with the girl and she began calling my cell phone. I returned to Trinidad and I met the girl. She didn't believe we were married and she lied and told me she does not have a relationship with my husband. I was told they have an apartment together and I was being used. I am so confused because I really cared about this man and I have been through a lot with him. What to do, how do I move on?
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (15 January 2008):
If you still want your marriage, ask him to drop that woman and if you have been used, there is no point in your marriage , file for a divorce. Think of it as a bad dream.
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