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*arissa22
writes:Last night I went to a party and there were quite a few people I knew there, and yes this was your typical teenage party with drink but I and the person in question weren't drinking. My friends brother was at the party (he just turned 18 a week ago and I'm 15) and I do have a big crush on him and my friend often said that she thought he liked me. He's not the loud player type but is really sweet and as far as I know, treats girls right. Basically me and him were just outside in the garden talking and I was really enjoying it and we kinda just leaned in and kissed each other, but it wasn't just a quick peck it was really passionate.One thing led to another and we ended up upstairs and were pretty obviously just about to have sex when we both heard a comotion coming from downstairs ( the neighbours had finally got annoyed and were calling the police) so we stopped and got out of there as fast as possible.He tried to walk home with me, but I just wanted to go with my friends so he went back to his house. I realise now that considering the age difference, we should never have got as far as we had, and if we hadn't of been interrupted we would have gone the whole way, but it just felt so right. Some of my friends tell me that I shouldn't go near him or talk to him again while others say I need to talk to him, so I have no idea what to do.Anyone help please?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2011): If you guys really care about each other try relationship before sex. as for the age difference, i wouldn't worry about it unless your parents threaten to call the cops. (age of consent is 16). but dont rush into sex unless you are ready and truly care about the person.
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reader, Hugh.J +, writes (21 June 2011):
 You are 15 and he is 18 (adult), which makes it illegal for both of you and both of you could be placed on the Sex Offenders' Register if things had proceeded uninterrupted: and he more likely than you would receive a custodial sentence - does that tell you what you should do?
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (21 June 2011):
 its no big deal i think you should talk to him but i dont think you should be sleeping with a guy you dont even kno
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