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writes: I'm having trouble getting a relationship. At school i was always a bit unpopular with women. I'm 20 in November yet I've had one 10 month relationship. It seems that every girl i like, even if they like me back, seems to change their mind and decide they dont want a relationship. All i want to do is make someone happy, and i feel like most women just want to get drunk and have one night stands.Now ive just totally lost the confidence and i dont know the best way to find a girl that will be interested. I have a gig i will be playing on sunday the 11th with my band and i know there will be plenty of women there, but i dont know if they will want a relationship since its in a bar and i need advice on how to approach them.Thanks
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (7 June 2006):
 I think you may be trying too hard.
Maybe you should just try to let natural charm work its magic, the results may surprise you.
It is like when you are single and nobody seems to want you, but then you become popular when you are in a relationship.
Natural attraction is strongest when you are not looking and have no expectaions.
Let the girl find you, not the other way round.
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