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writes:Hello,I am a 56 year old female divorce now for 7 years...and I just told my boyfriend that it's over!We have known each other now for the past 20 years. And he just went through a divorce about 1 yr. ago....we have been dating for 2 yrs but tells me he is not ready to get married......:( He just got his house back from his divorce after being away from his home for 1yr. This tells me he does not want to live in my house He did live with me for about 7 months then moved out cuz I lost my job.:( All he wants is sex, sex, sex, and he takes me out to eat dinner and lunch everyday but what about my finincial responsibilities?Lost
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (3 September 2010):
 What about your financial responsiblities... as far as I know, the key word is YOUR'S.. nothing to do with him.
Get yourself a flatmate if you need help with your bills.
He probably is frightened to get married again. Your just dating and already you expect some money from him. Divorce is just to expensive to take the chance.
And what's he supposed to do with his house... leave it alone and let it rot, or sell it after he fought so hard to save it and get back in.
It's probably good your relationship is over. He's only been divorced a year, and already he's under pressure again, but this time the pressure comes from you. That's enough to make any divorcee, man or woman run away as fast as they can.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (3 September 2010):
 Sounds like he just wants fun and to have a good time. At least he's been honest with you and told you he doesnt want to get married again yet. Divorce can be awful on anyone and I must say I've been divorced 20 years and I know I won't get married again for my own reasons. I wish someone would take me out to dinner and lunch everyday. If you want more and he can't give it then you will have to do something about it because I can't see him wanting to. A heart to heart chat may make some compromizes for you. Hope this helps
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