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36-40,
anonymous
writes:i recently experienced a painful split im now feeling raw, trapped in our home we shared, i just dont want to be in the house at all! im feeling paranoid i try to relax but something or someone reminds me and its back to square one again, i feel let down useless like i was worthless to him
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (13 August 2011):
 I felt the same after my husband and I split. I got the house to raise the kids in and it is financially impossible to sell right now,....sooo
*I got a new bed, painted my bathroom a dif color, bought new sheets, and got new habits.
Start simple, buy sheets in a color or print your ex would HATE, but you love! Just do something for YOU that you love! Take down any old pictures that trigger negative emotions..put up ones that really speak to you..art you love, pictures of people you feel loved by, positive words, even poetry!
BLOOM where you are planted even if the ground is rocky.
Best Wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2011): I remember feeling like this and as it was impossible to move at the time ,I just redecorated - changed everything, curtains the lot. Got blinds, new pictures, different stuff in the kitchen, totally changed colour,bedding etc and felt a whole lot better afterwards.Some new some from car boot sales. I was so engrossed in re-doing everything it was like therapy
You weren't worthless, you were a huge part of his life, for some reason it didn't work. Nobodys fault just the way it is.
One day you will meet somebody who you will go the distance with. You may not think so now,but you will
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