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After our drunken threesome I had sex with boyfriend's friend

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Question - (6 September 2023) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 September 2023)
A female United States age 18-21, anonymous writes:

Is it bad I let my boyfriends mate finish inside me in morning. My bf had been talking to me for few months about this, so we finally had a drunken threesome with his friend last night. Everything was fine until we met in toilet early morning , whilst my bf was asleep , I let him finish inside me (implant)

I feel bad but I'm not sure if I should tell my bf. His friend told me to keep my mouth shut. I just don't want him finding out from him another time. I'm 19, my bf is 24 and his friend is 33 so do you think he will not say anything as he's older and more mature.

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A female reader, Anonymous 123 Italy +, writes (8 September 2023):

Anonymous 123 agony auntOh dear God, I really hope this question is fake! On the off chance that it's not, have you created a mess! You are just 19, involved with a 24 year old guy and had sex with his 33 year old friend...are you sure this isn't some sex racket that these guys are involving you in? Why is a 24 year old guy friends with someone 10 years older and how did he have the nerve to invite him to your bedroom? Words fail me! I would ask you to dump the boyfriend and never make the mistake of meeting the friend ever again but you'll probably never agree so all I'll say is, please make better choices. I'm sorry you had to go through this. Please take care of yourself. Make better choices. Please.

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (8 September 2023):

kenny agony auntOh dear what a mess, things like this never end well. Because you have indulged in the threesome scene, his mate takes this as a green light to do what he did.

I would never advise bringing a third party into a relationship, and even worse because in this situation its his friend, come on OP, this was never going to end well was it.

How good a friend is this guy to your boyfriend, just wondering as there is a 9 year age gap so obviously someone possibly he not known that long.

Relationships are built on trust, without trust a relationship is doomed to fail. The question is if you love your boyfriend and see a future with him are you prepared to keep this a secret and never tell him.

Personally i think maybe you should do the right thing. Sometimes in life what goes around comes around, and if he finds out a distorted version of what happened later on things will be a lot worse.

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