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writes:Hi; my gf often complains that it hurts her when inside. She's wet, we use lube but I can't cum until I go hard. Is there anything we can do to make it easier? Sometimes she's just looks me in the eye out of pure love and takes it hard but I don't think its fair as I know she's not cumming from it. Any ideas? Or am I jus bad in bed lol Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2023): Before they can enjoy intercourse comfortably, most women need considerable warm-up time, 30 to 45 minutes. If men push before women feel receptive, the women experience pain. Pain-free lovemaking is based on leisurely, playful, whole-body massage. Men should slow down and give women all the time they need to become relaxed, aroused, and receptive. It is recommend at least 30 minutes of kissing, cuddling, mutual whole-body massage, and oral sex before attempting intercourse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2023): cowgirl is the best position for combatting pain during sex. It’s best for the woman to go on top as she will have control over how deep the penetration will go. Spooning is a helpful position namely, because the butt provides a “buffer” to make sure the penetration isn’t too deep or intense for the receiver.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2023): 18 College Freshman I had a boyfriend classmate. Sex was good, we're each other's first. I had a part time job. Paul Newman's identical twin brother, lost at birth, was my boss. So it seemed. I guess I was undressing him and he took notice. The first time with him "OMG penises never stop growing." He was huge. It hurt but not a lot. The 2nd time he said I should be on top and face the wall away from him "reverse cowgirl." I had most of the control. By the 5th time I was more assertive on top and it was heavenly. Somehow at that angle it just goes way better with a big boy.
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