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writes:Hello everyone, So I was friends with a group of people and I walked away from them because there was some accusations that I made a remark about someone and I didn't. A guy that I know that was a part of the group of friends I was in had a sister. I suspected that the sister liked me, but I didn't really make a move because the friend said he doesn't want anyone dating his sister and he was a good friend of mine so I honored his wishes. The reason why I suspected that she liked me because she would always complain that I don't hang out with her and she would always give a look that a couple of people saw and they brought it up to me that she definitely likes me. I shrugged it off because I was honoring my friends wishes. This girl was desperate for a boyfriend and I just didn't want to be a part of that. So we have a friend who started dating her and my friend the girls brother which was a friend of ours got upset. So one day I was sitting with my friend and his father and the father turned to me and said " I shouldn't say bad things about my friend because when two people start dating it will come back to the person" I really didn't know what was going on and after that the girl and the brother who is my friend started acting strange. Come to find out the Guy who started dating her told her that I said bad about her, but I never said anything to him about her and to anyone else. I'm pretty confident that I didn't say anything about the girl because I was never a big fan of the guy that she's dating so I wouldn't have certain conversation, and everyone said to me that I never had anything bad to say about them. I felt like the guy realize that she likes me and he wanted to get me out of the way. So recently I saw both of them and she gave me that same look and was looking at me out the corner of her eye and she distanced herself from the guy when she saw me. Can someone please tell what's this all about? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2014): But just wanted to add, even if people do tell you she likes you, don't be too sure unless she tells you to your face. I remember about a year ago, I was mad for this guy, and it seemed like he liked me too. Helping me with everything, staring at me buying me gifts on special occasion. Loads of his friends said he liked me, and me being a total desperate fool tried to make a move on asking him out. Turned out he took me more as a friend, and he already had a gf. I met her and couldn't help wondering "what does she have that I don't?" Everyone says I'm prettier than her, and apparently, I'm more fun to be around. But anyway, just be sure.
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reader, HerculesVangod +, writes (4 March 2014):
I'm sure the guy use the "He side bad things about you" line to get her to like him.Yes, it is a lie that some people use.And if they are not on your side, there is no chance of you getting out of it as the good guy.Rumors will spreed, words will be changed, and when it gets to you, you'll be like, "Huh? WTF! When did I do that?"If they act like that towards you, then maybe their not really your friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2014): I think she likes you, and is dating the guy to see your reaction. She may be trying to make you jealous, which even though she still shows you she likes you, has worked. You wouldn't be asking on here otherwise. But yes, she likes you. She may be upset, about what you apparently said. Question is, do you like her?
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