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writes:I was moaning at my boyfriend for not appreciating me sexually more than he did, and he said what after a month of dating? Does he have a fair point? I was moaning at him for still being interested in porn.
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reader, R1 +, writes (19 February 2013):
 why would he stop being interested in porn? he isn't going to change his interests just because you have come on the scene. in terms of not appreciating you sexually - what do you mean? he isn't interested? he doesn't do what you want in bed?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (19 February 2013):
 Ok are you upset because he doesn't appreciate you sexually (what does that actually mean to you?) or are you upset that he's looking at porn?
OR is the act of looking at porn what you determine to be not appreciating you sexually?
If you are a woman that wants a man that does not look at porn, then you need to end the relationship. I know that folks thing that it's a hard line especially if you like the guy... but if you don't want him to watch porn when he's dating you and he does not see a problem with it... you automatically set up a situation where either you will be hurt or you will be lied to..... if you are with a guy that has not issue with it.... In order to be happy you need to find a guy that does not look at porn.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2013): No point being with him, you are not compatable sex wise.You are nagging about porn ALREADY.I think you should end this now,before he does.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2013): My fiance still is interested in porn and we've been together 9 years.If you want your relationship to last, you need to learn how to communicate with him in a way he understands....no more moaning it is immature and unbecoming of a young lady!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2013): Move on and find someone who shares your views. You cannot change a man, so it's best to find someone you're more compatible with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2013): Your question is confusing OP. What more do you want him to do after a month to appreciate you sexually? Is it because he still likes porn that you suddenly feel that way or is it something else?
OP just because I have sex two or three times a day (that's the trend for me after the first month or two) doesn't mean I will stop using porn. I'm with my fiancée 7 years I still like porn. It's not competition, I don't like porn because there's something wrong with my woman. It's nothing to do with her.
OP it's been only a month, he likes porn, you hate porn. Time to move on and find a guy who doesn't like it.
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