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writes: I dated this guy for 3yrs. We did everything together. He took me to meet his friends (which I might say he has never done with anyone before me), bought me jewelry, introduced me as his girlfriend, met my daughter (promised me he wouldn't hurt us), told me he loved me, when he bought a house I was included, told me that he bought it because it was the one I wanted and fell in love with, gave me a key to it. I spent every weekend there, we decorated it together, I picked out all the colors just everything to do with it we did together.After a couple of years, one morning told me out of the blue that we couldn’t have sex. Thought it was something I did, but come to find out it wasn't that after all. He started crying, telling me that he was afraid I would leave him because he has herpes and that he got it 22 yrs ago. This is a guy that I gave all my love to. I accepted that because the way they he made me feel. I thought we were going to be together forever. I honestly didn't care that he had it because I loved him, I fell in love with him before and I still loved him after.I know I am going on and I guess my point is that about a month after he told me he also told me that wasn't in love with me, that a girl that he sees once a year (has I guess for some time now) had his heart and always will. I couldn't believe my ears.I know everything about this guy right down to which of his 7 toothbrushes he uses first. Did everything for him, she knows nothing about him at all. To top it off, he flew her up here for x-mas and is asking her to move up here to live with him and be with him.Might I add that I got tested and it was positive. I told him about it and all he could say was sorry. I can deal with a break up but not like this. What do I do?
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reader, hotmama +, writes (1 January 2006):
Just think about what this snake did to you! He used you for his own gains and then threw you away like a piece of garbage and gave you a wonderful present - herpes. Be thankful he's out of your life. He doesn't deserve you. What he did to you - he will do to his present victim. Find someone deserving of you. The hurt will subside in time. Good luck!
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reader, beenthere +, writes (1 January 2006):
that's awful. how can he be in love with someone he only sees once a year. i'd guess he was seeing her before he was with you. did you put money or anything into setting up the house. you have done a lot for him and it sounds like he's just used you to prepare something for this other woman. get yourself to a doctor asap about the herpes but don't have anything to do with this man. any decent person, however hard it may be, would mention something as important as that before having sex with you.
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