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41-50,
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writes:I've been in a relationship for 7 months everything was going great until one day he woke up and said no more. He's been divorced and has a child and now he's afraid to go any further with the relationship! How will I change that
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (11 December 2007):
 You won't. He has to be ready to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2007): You can't really change how someone feels about a relationship or wanting one. Your man may be getting a bit freaked out with his changing feelings, he may actually be in love with you and cannot handle it at this time. The best thing to do is act as if you have moved on, don't call him, see him or text him, if he calls you and you want to speak to him, fine, but don't intitiate anything and do not pursue him in any way.
This will make him realize that his fears about getting intimate with you or more serious are all in his head, and if he was yours in the first place, he will be back with renewed interest and greater intimacy...just don't push him for it....if he doesn't come around, it is best to move on for real with your life.
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