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writes:there's this boy who goes to my orchestra group, and he talks to me and my friends quite a bit. i really like him and want him to notice me above the others. He's a year older than me. how do i know if he likes me back, or if he likes one of my friends better? I can't go on very much longer just hoping. but i'm scared to make a move in case he thinks i am stupid and never talks to me again. he has plenty of other friends who are girls, how can i make him want me? help please!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2008): I know what your going through... my best friend has an older brother and I fell for him... when i say fall i mean i have fallin and i cant get back up. so I know what you mean... well you CAN'T be shy that will get you nowhere. Be outgoing mess with him and be a flirt but not too much. Talk a lot and get his number and talk outside of school but be careful that you don't fall for him too hard if at all, that's when you get hurt the most and then can't get up like me you dont want that... I don't know what is gonna happen with me and my friend's brother or with you and the guy you like but I will tell you this, be strong and remember EVERYTHING happenes for a reason. good luck.
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reader, Rachael89 +, writes (26 February 2008):
Hey. When i was at school i had exactly the same thing as you do. He was in my math class and he was really popular and i didnt think i had a chance. I never really had much confidence. The only thing you can do is this is...step 1. Watch and Listen- Watch how he acts.... Listen to what he talks aboutStep 2. Do Your Research- If its cars he talks about research englands top 10 cars, if its films do films.Step 3. Make the move- Start to talk to him about what he would be intrested in, make him laugh to ease the tension, make him think your intresting to talk to even if you are reading things off the internet, after that you will be naturalluy intresting andhe will fall for you.I really hope this helps, i also notised you said it was your orchestra group maybe you could ask him over for practise or spark a private lesson because you have such a big thing in common already that is a big starter for you.I really hope this helps, just remember be yourself, be happy and always smile. Rachael xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2008): Just be yourself and ask him out if you feel you can. I have nothing again girls asking lads out. If you cannot then always be the one laughing and smiling, dont be scowling and frowning and taking life serious. Lads hate serious girls who look so miserable. Try and get to talk to him though and maybe find out just what he likes and dislikes and maybe who knows, you could be on a date soon. Let me know how you get on.
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