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writes:I would like to say hi. I am 13 years old I will be 14 in a few weeks. I am starting high school in about 2 weeks. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 8 months. He bought condoms and he said just in case because you never know. Then when I had asked him does he want to have sex with me he said maybe. How do I convince him to have sex with me. Your probably saying this girl is so young, I am leaving to move to a diffrent country in about 4 months.we are still going to stay together because I will be visting home every 2-3 months. How can I get him to have sex with me? We are both virgins.. Some one help me with advice!
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reader, Bermychick96 +, writes (26 August 2010):
Bermychick96 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for the advice and I will follow the advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2010): You don't need to have sex you are not even 14 yet. There will be plenty of boys who will come along. If you are moving most likely you will break up because you are so young. And if you don't then it will be all the better when you do have sex at an appropriate age. I had sex young and i wish so bad everyday that i would have waited. Please wait it really is the best. At least until you are 16, but even longer if you can. Sex young leads to many other things, and a bad reputation. Trust me i went through it all. If he doesn't want to have sex yet then respect him. He knows you are to young and you should too. There are lots of activities 14 year old's can do. Go to the beach, or play mini golf, movies, go get a puppy or something. Take a walk in the park, or play basketball. You don't need sex yet. One day when the time is right you can have sex and you will be very happy you waited. I hope you keep this in mind. Best wishes.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (26 August 2010):
 You already know that you two are too young for sex. You've barely started adolescence. You think you are ready for sex and the consequences that follow? How was your boyfriend able to obtain condoms at his age anyway? (I'm assuming he's the same age as you) and even if he isn't, that's probably why he knows he shouldn't be having sex with you. Just be patient and wait until you are mature enough. You won't regret being patient.
I hope that helps.
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