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30-35,
*rebeauty
writes:well ive been talkin 2 this guy for about a month n change. He is 21 and im 18 the problem is im not 2 sure if he likes me as much as he says he does.We talk on the phone but thats only if i call him 1st bcuz he doesnt call me.For the time we have been talkin we only been out 2gether twice.I kno im a very attractive female and it makes me go crazy that we havent had any alone time. He has a daughter and he wrks but the problem is i neva see him and i need some attention ...oh yea and 2 top it off he always has excuses....What should i do????.....he says he likes me but actions speak louder than wrds.. Reply to this Question
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reader, PunkyPippi +, writes (23 January 2009):
 I know you can't imagine what it's like to have a child, but they do take up a lot of time. If he also has a job, he's probably pretty exhausted at the end of his days.
Do you think you can handle being in a relationship where you'll always be second fiddle to his daughter? She's the love of his life and always will be. I know you need attention, but she comes first. I think you should schedule dates a week or so in advance with him so he has the proper time to make arrangements. If you are able to do that, then the relationship has a fighting chance. If he can't do that for you, then forget about him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009): he's just not that into you so move on. And if he is and is just "playing hard to get" you should stop being the first one to call, etc. and he might make the first move if he feels that he is losing you.
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