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writes:I sent my x a sexy online v card- I had written it last year and somehow it went out this year even though I thought I had deleted all cards from there. He replied back and said he loves me and is thinking about me and endearments. I'm not sure how to reply. I do still love him, so much has happened though with a lot of pain in our break up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt is complicated- basically he decided he could not be monogamous- he went crazy, which he has apologized for recently. Said he would come back. There was never any question that we love each other a great deal. The pain of this has changed me completely. But I had thought we would spend our lives together, I've never loved anyone else.I had ignored him for a while then we had some contact due to a death in the family- too much detail to write, then I went back to ignoring him again.I will wait to see what he does now if anything. I know there are other women in his life and I made it clear I won't be a part of that.I believe this was fate also, but I'm not sure what the reason is yet if any.ty.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2011): Well this might be fate...however, now that you made the first move already, do not respond. Let him take the next step and call you since he now knows how you feel. If he loves you he will come and find you
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (14 February 2011):
 Why did you two break up?
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reader, happy24birthday +, writes (14 February 2011):
 Do not reply. Stand back and see if he tries to contact you again and deal with that if he does.
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reader, Sav  +, writes (14 February 2011):
Life is short and its not all rainbows and butterflies. If you think you love him and he loves you too, go for it. Take it slowly and see how it goes. Remember all the bad and the good things and how they started and then set some ground rules for yourself, and some for the pair of you. Keep checking the rules and as soon as one is broken - re-evaluate what's happening.
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