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Abusive Husband, how do I change him?

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Question - (17 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 March 2009)
A female South Africa age 36-40, anonymous writes:

my husbund is always making nasty comments about me for no reason and then tells me to learn to move on in live if i'm still mad at him 5 minutes later but he never appologises.

How can i make him realize what he's doing to me without being rude or getting him mad again?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2009):

You can't make him realize how mean he is being to you because that would mean he has to lose control and admit that. I'm wondering if you have any children. No children, then run as fast as you can. If he treats you like that think of what he'll do with kids...kids are wonderful but they test your patience and he has none. He likes control and you are not always in control with kids.

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A female reader, ilovebowsandcherries United Kingdom +, writes (17 March 2009):

ilovebowsandcherries agony auntyou can't make him realise he knows what he is doing he is trying to degrade you and put you down make you feel worthless and your not!!!

he is just a big bully thinking he has the power!!

anything you do tell him will be wrong so what i say is your best off trying to get out of there and moving far away from him! he is not a nice person and you don't deserve that no woman does!!

just trust me he's not worth your time!

he's a big bully who thinks he can do what he wants when he wants.

but he needs to learn that he can't treat you like that!

i hope this helps

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