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writes:About a year ago i fell deeply in love with this boy we went out for about 6 months. He asked me to do things i didnt want to do it scared me and i made an excuse and ended it. 1 year on i still love him and cant cope without him although his sister said he has another girlfriend. I'm upset and confused help ! Reply to this Question
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reader, kenny +, writes (22 May 2007):
 I really feel for you here, i know what it feels like to be this age and to have the feelings you are having at the moment.
All i can say is although it does not feel like it now things will get better, i can assure you.
I would try to forget about this guy and move on, after all he tried to get you to do things you were not happy doing, is this really the type of guy you want around you?. Go out with you mates, have fun, enjoy life, and you will probably meet someone else right when you least expect it.
Good luck x
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reader, nicola79 +, writes (22 May 2007):
 quite right,you dont need to be doing things like that at your age. i think you are better off just enjoying yourself with your friends. i know you think you love this lad but you will go through this loads in your life like we all do.
just forget him now,you may have had a lucky escape,you could have ended up doing something with him and wished you hadnt,so like i say go out and enjoy life. you will know when the time is right,and when that time comes you will be so glad that you didnt do anything earlier on in life. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (22 May 2007):
 Hey lovely,
I've been there, and I know how difficult it is to go with your head instead of your heart.
I promise you now that in a couple of years time, you will look back on this and wonder why on earth you still had feelings for him.
When I was in this position, I realised that the fact was that I didn't love him, but that I was feeling hurt by what he did. Have you thought that this may be the case?
Honestly hun, it would seem that this guy is extremely immature and very uncaring and really not worth the effort.
You are worth SO MUCH MORE than that. You don't want to be someone's toy.
Look in the mirror every morning and say to yourself " I am beautiful. I deserve better than that b*stard."
You need to realise your self worth.
Get out there and get someone who deserves you not this immature boy who really doesn't deserve your effort or feelings.
I know it's hard, but you can do it! Hold you head up high and realise that you are priceless.
Feel good being you and why not feel proud? There's only one of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2007): Aww! You poor thing you have been taken advantage of by this Boy
And because you where sensible and said no to doing things you weren’t ready for he’s gone,
I can tell you now you did the right thing it wasn’t real love I can tell you that now,
Do you think anyone who loved you we treat you this way for being true to yourself?
It sounds like your hormones are playing havoc with you at the moment
And your thinking you need this boy to be happy?
You don’t in fact to be happy you need to stay as far away as possible from him,
and find something else that you have a passion for that’s the way to Impress boys, when they see a real talent for something it blows there mind,
so put all you concentration into a hobby or school subject of interest,
and ask your Mum/guardian to take you shopping do something to cheer yourself up and make you feel better,
Good luck sweetie
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