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writes:i'm asian.. therefore, generally short. i'm somewhat concious of my height, even though i'm 5'3". i'm not exactly super short like some other girls, and not all that tall. I used to weigh 110 but after track and such, i'm around 115..making me more concious about my weight. I'm currently going out with a polish guy that's really tall at 6'. my question is, how do we kiss? i mean, i don't want him to pick me up because i'll feel fat..and it feels awkward when we stand and talk too cuz i can see up his nose -_-" Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2010): Thanks for the great responses, you guys! :) And I'll be sure to take a step back when we talk! Hahaha
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reader, Illithid +, writes (28 December 2010):
 If you're uncomfortable, then he might not be the type for you, but I'm 6'2" and dated a 5'1" girl for quite a while. Either I would bend down to kiss or we'd kiss while seated or yes, sometimes I picked her up (and she was 130+ so she was heavier than you). We just laughed about it and had fun. But it's up to the couple to decide what works or doesn't work.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (28 December 2010):
 The height difference is not that big of a deal. My wife and I have an even bigger difference than you and your boyfriend do and we manage just fine. And I don't have to lift her up just to kiss. It's just a matter of your boyfriend bending over a little. The biggest worry you're going to have is having a stiff neck from looking straight up all of the time. Generally when you kiss you're head will be facing upwards and his will be facing downwards.
As a joke in the past, we've improvised.... if outside stand on a curb or rock and if inside stand on the first step of your staircase. It's kissing, so.... whatever works best for you guys!
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reader, Molly9945 +, writes (28 December 2010):
First off you are NOT fat. Actually you are probably underweight which is also just as unhealthy as being overweight. Second, my bf is six foot and I'm 5'2", so I usually stand on my tip toes and he leans down a bit. Sometimes he picks me up, which makes me feel skinnier than I am because, hey! Someone can pick me up!
So just don't worry about your height and weight, you'll figure it out so it isn't awkward. Oh and when you two are talking, step away a but to look into his eyes and not up his nose ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2010): I don't think you have much to worry about. I'm only 5'4 and my boyfriend is 6'3. It doesn't look weird at all. I'm sure you two look great together
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