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anonymous
writes:hey i'm a heart broker and don't know what to do..i'm chinese, stay in shanghai, i'm from hk worked in shanghai now, i met a pretty girl in my life 1 years ago, as first we just friends, cos i have a girl friend and she has a boy friend too...but things goes different last Nov, i start dating her, i broke up with my girl friend from beijing to be with her, as we met along i find out she didn't broke up with her boyfriend, her boyfriend is rich, but doesn't stay in the same country..but now her dad wasn't allow her to see me, and she plans to get married with this guy, she said she love me, she said even she get married after she still wants to be with me..i don't know what to do...i love her alot..she is everything right for me..i have a good pay job but is not something as much money as that guy...her family is quiet rich too, this is so chinese.. only rich married to rich.. i don't know what to do.. should i stay with her or just let go.. but we both love each other so much
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (3 March 2011):
Rich use to marry rich anywhere on earth. That's so human.
When you love someone you don't care about his/her social nor economic status. I can understand if you avoid getting involved with someone too different from you from the start. But once you have dated and everything, she still chooses him because he will assure her economic status. She doesn't love you at all. Sorry.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (3 March 2011):
 If she cannot break traditions and has to marry someone else for the sake of his status and money; you need to let her go and never see her again. You need a loving wife, not a lover.
I am with a rich man now; but when I married him, we were living paycheck to paycheck. I married him for love. If she isn't willing to do the same thing for you; I think it's more of a reflection of her strength of character and the courage of her convictions than of your cultural traditions. Sorry to be blunt, but character IS destiny. Best of Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2011): Women come and women go.
Diamonds are forever.
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