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writes:I was wondering ,what is the general opinion, about chance in your life.I'm having a really hard time right now, and it seems in the last ten years ,i just simply became very unlucky.I lost my job, my marriage, my son is very ill, have several health problems, my list is just goes on like that. And ,it never seems to stop.What do you think is going in someone's life , when your ''luck'' ,just can't change to the better?Is it possible to be very unlucky with no reason, at the rest of your life?I really didn't give up, but getting weaker.What do you think, I should think about this? Or do anybody has the same experince? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2009): Hold in there friend, lots of people go through bad patches be it for weeks, months or years.
I do not believe that people have bad luck it's just that when things go wrong we blame it on luck. When you are stuck in a rut it is very difficult to get out of but you can. You just need strength and to focus on the smallest of positive points in your life. Currently you probably think there are no positives but look again and this time do not look for only negatives.
Do you have any close friends that you can talk to? Do you socialise with your spare time (if you have any)? I am getting the feeling you need the support of a friend/s or family members.
Dont sit and think that things will never get any better for you it is too negative, you have control of your life no one else so it is up to you to now make of it what you can. Try to get out and meet new people if you can and not sit at home on a pc or laptop talking online. Good Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2009): In moments like this where you have nobody around and everything is going wrong only God is there.Pray, read the bible. You will be inspired to better think, to put your thoughts together, decide who you are, what you want and where you wanna go. That´s only the beginning though, but I think is the right way to start.
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