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female
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30-35,
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writes:so me and my boyfriend started out great he was so sweet and we got along great. we moved in together 2 months ago and it wasn't just down the road its 3 hours away from my friends and family.. so I haven't been able to find a job yet and I just sit at home all the time while he works.. I love him so much but I am not happy at all.. I'm happy when I'm with him.. but just soo sad all the time... I sleep alot.. don't do much and just isn't myself.. I'm also starting to get really insecure in our relationship... somethings wrong.. I don't know what to do help!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2009): You did that and your not even married? You need to go back to your support structure or you will fall apart. You were not ready to do this, your too young and have to finish the whole process of becaoming a stable adult. Tell him you would rather be poor and happy than rich and lonely/sad. Tell him how this is affecting you and how you feel. Then tell him you want him to move back with you to be around your friends and family and find a job by them. If he just says "no" than you have to ask yourself "what the heck, why did I leave everything important in my life for a guy who can not even consider my feelings". Not a bright future with that type of man. GO BACK HOME! Your friends and family miss you to. When you are ready to maove away from that type of support structure, you are ussually a bit older, possibly married, possibly some kids. You know because then your family is your life and your support structure and you guys do it as a fanily. But this doesnt feel right to you cause it isnt right. GO HOME!
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reader, Pyro_Dimples +, writes (15 May 2009):
 talk to him and consider maybe getting a place closer to home or maybe choosing a time to go spend a few days at home during the week when he works. That way you can go and have fun and socialize and not be stuck in isolation. i move around a lot with my boyfriend being in the guard and know how you feel. you either need to get out there and meet people or work out a way that you can go home every now and again. Best of Luck.
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