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writes:I recently met a man who wanted sex with me but I held back (I did want to though) although the meals were included on holiday he never once asked me to go for a meal with him on our own (It wouldnt have cost him) but one day we were walking back to our hotel corridor and he stood there and was about to ask me to go in for sex. I would have but surely wouldnt it have been better even if it was only a holiday fling-to have had some sort of build up before the event a nice evening out together. Am I so wrong just to want that-it wouldnt have even cost him-I just did not fancy walking up to the room and thats that. I feel very disappointed becasue I didnt do it and also becasue he didnt give me the chance to have some sort of build up beforehand. Am I so wrong to want that???
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reader, eddie  +, writes (13 July 2008):
 A "fling" is really just sex. Why make it something it's not. You're either OK with it or not. All the wining and dining is really no effort if you're in a resort and it's all included. What would he have been proving? It's not wrong to want romance but you were looking for a fling. If you don't want any attachment to the guy then just go for the physical aspect. If you want more, it's not a holiday fling.
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reader, daniellexxxx +, writes (12 July 2008):
 You so write not to have slept with him seems to me like he only wanted you for sex and thats wrong. I know people like to have a fling on holiday but seems you wanted to be taken out then have sex not just sex then thats it.
You need to forget it he oviously didn't get your phone number to keep in touch.
Move on good luck x
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