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A bit paranoid about the closeness to my lesbian friend, should I talk to her about it?

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Question - (16 July 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 April 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *oulcal writes:

well i got a very good friend and she told me a couple of weeks ago she might be a lesbian, but i didnt mind at all.

But i had a sleepover sunday and when my other mate fell asleep she got into my bed and started to hold my hand so im feeling a bit paranoid or however you spell it lol so i told my other very good friend about the incident and she said oh my god!! that happened to me aswell she came under the covers held my hand and looked like she was about to kiss me.

so were a bit anxious at the moment and i am wondering am i just paranoid or is she actually trying to hit on us???

and shall i speak to her about it at all?

cheers xx

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A female reader, BrownEyesGirl United Kingdom +, writes (11 April 2011):

BrownEyesGirl agony auntto be honest i think you are acting quite homophobic about this?

if she has always done things like this then what is the big deal?

if not, then just talk to her and stop acting so antigay.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008):

If it makes you uncomfortable then yes you need to talk to her and let her know early on where you stand so it will not jeopardize your friendship later on

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