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writes:was at my first works party getting along with everyone and settling in quite well. at the end of the night when there was a small group of us left one of the guys at work came on to me quite strongly he tried to kiss me kept trying to feel me up i pushed him away and tried to keeep my distance as he has a gf who also works with us and on top of that i dont even fancy him in the slightest so i didn't lead him on or flirt.this other guy at work noticed and started to ask me what i'd been doing with him i was honest and told him what happened that it was nothing he hit on me and i wasn't interested he started to then go on about this other guys gf on how nice she is and why would i hurt her ....but i did nothing! it seems like this guy has a big reputation on being a flirt even more so when he drinks and he was very drunk! but i did nothing i stayed well clear and it seems like this guy who noticed him hitting on me thinks im going to do something with him or that i already have which is insane the thought never crossed my mind.im really worried now that rumours will spread and ppl will get hurt i never did anything but as the new girl it seems everyone is willing to point fingers at me. i need help on how to get through this situation i love my job but it seems now that things will become awkward i haven't been back to work yet but am worried
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2008): put this guy straight before he starts to spread rumours. he might just be jealous and want you for himself
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reader, petina1  +, writes (6 December 2008):
 Office parties are always tricky. No doubt you will be the talk of the office when you do return. It may be that most people were drunk anyway and not taken much notice or seeing it at a big deal like this other guy has. The other guy may have just been testing the water with you to because he fancies you. Just go back with your head held high. You've done nothing wrong. If anyone says anything just say things like 'he's not my type'. Just have an answer for any snide comments. They will be watching and eventually they will see that you two arent an item. You never know, maybe when hes sober he will see how silly he's been and apologise, just make sure everyone knows he has. hope this helps.
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