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writes:Hi all and thank you for taking the time to read this. :) ok here goes, i have been trying for a baby 9 months now, every month same answer, negative! Its starting to really dishearten me. We had no problems conceiving our other children, i have two and he has one both from previous relationships. We are getting married next yr and all we want is a child together so our family is complete, we have been having lots of fun and not pressuring ourselves and have intercourse very regularly as we both have a healthy appetite shall we say lol. We are both in our twenties and healthy, i have no idea why its not happening for us other than i had a marena coil in for 2yrs, had it removed in nov 08 and my periods got straight back into a regular cycle. So there is no reason why we shouldnt have conceived by now! Doctors have re-assured me that the coil wouldnt interfere once it was removed. Im so confused please can someone give me some advice on this??
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionFOR ANYONE INTERESTED I JUST FOUND OUT IM 6 WEEKS GONE! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI would like to thank everyone whos givin me some really feedback on this :) im a lot less worried now and im sure it'll happen when were least expecting it because thats just the way it goes lol planning for children is definately alot harder than it seems! anyho0o thank you again :) and for whoever it was that said my own children wont feel special enough... my 5yr old is asking for another brother or sister which sparked off our wanting to have another child. and yes we are young, which is why we would like children now! and finally I HAVE THOUGHT ABOUT PPL WHO CANT HAVE CHILDREN OF THERE OWN thats why i made the choice about 3 yrs ago that im donating eggs after Ive had my children. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2009): 36 weeks Satin? It seems like you've been eight months for a loong time.. I've had mine for a month now.. had her at 40 weeks and 1 day! goodluck! ooo i bet s/he'll be gorgeous (good runner up to mine) ;).
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2009): you already have three kids between you and you want another one? AND you are only 18-21? Its not like age is against you. I think you need to calm down and realise you have many years to "complete" your family, altho I think your existing children may feel a little put out if they find that they are not special enough for you. You are lucky enough to already have two children of your own - what about the poor women who are unable to concieve any naturally? 9 months isnt all that long to wait, especially when you already have a large family. Patience is the key.
Why not wait until after you are married then you can have a child in a stable relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2009): One of our Aunts here has made it clear that she tried for a year before convieving. I cannot tell you your medical reasons, i can only assure you that some people do have to try and try and try. Doesn't seem fair, eh? I mean, my teenage hormons got me pregger by accident the second time! good greif.. she's adorable though.
If there's one thing that's fun to keep working at, it's sex with no condoms my dear! Don't get disheartened though please. Just keep trying. Sorryy.... that's all i can really say. Goodluck!
~Sy.
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