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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I my boyfriend during my year abroad. We spent 5 amazing months together then I had to go back home. We both agreed to continue our relationship and we fixed the dates when i will come back and visit him. After a few weeks he started to ignore me(didnt txted me, and didnt't talked on msn), but when i phoned and asked him if he wants to break up he told me that in that case he would tell me and he cant wait to see me again. ( I belived it, coz he is a very honest person). Two days before i went to visit him, he started to get in contact with me again. Then we spent another awesome two weeks together. He was very nice to me, it seemed to me, he is in love with me. He told me a hundred times that he wants me to come back two months later, after i finish school. I told him that he should txt me at least in every two weeks , so i know he's interested in me. (He didnt seemed that he really promises it to me...)I got home, we were keeping in touch for two weeks or so, i bought my flight tickets. But now he has disappeared again and doesnt reply to my texts. And its 4 days till i should fly there. I guess he's just playing a cruel game with me. If he wants to break up with me why isnt he telling me the truth? We live far from each other so it would be the easiest thing to send me a txt that its over and he doesnt want to see me ever again. Or if he really loves me (when we are together , it seems so, or maybe he's just faking it?), why doesnt he respond to my mails and msg?
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reader, Blonde68  +, writes (4 February 2011):
You say you have visited him before and that you are due to visit him again... does he ever actually visit you?
I sense that this relationship is all one sided.. he really hasn't put much, if any, effort in, has he!
I would suggest you try and call or text him and state that your flight date is nearing and since you haven't heard anything you are going to cancel your flight.
This will either kick him in to touch and reply or if you don't hear anything then you know what a waste of space he is and really not the kind of guy you deserve.
Word of advice though, if you do go and see him and things work out, next time get him to do a little of the chasing and visit you.
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2011): He doesn't sound as interested in you and seems you are making all the moves to see him. Is he paying for the tickets or splitting the costs? I think you are being taken advantage of.
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