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29, never kissed and I'm scared at the thought, too!

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Question - (6 December 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 December 2008)
A female Ireland age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i am 29 yaers old and i never ever kissed a guy in whole life nevr even once i don,t know ow and partly scared of it too.how do people french kiss

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2008):

Anon, honey, men are not crocodiles. Don't expect they are going to "French" you on the first date. You can indicate how you would like to be kissed..or not. I don't know when "tongue kissing" got to be the standard kiss. It was not in my younger days. It usually came later..after a longer relationship. Anyway, don't be afraid. If you are not ready for it, just say so. I never initiated it on a first date, but often the girl did. I just "went with the flow" (smile). Anyway, it felt good and I responded. It it not to "complicated". It goes pretty naturally.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2008):

The more you sike yourself out the worse its going to be. You want to make sure you dont put your tongue too fer deep in his mouth otherwise he might gag. Just gently massage his tongue, dont go too fast bc then slobber may result. Slow and gentle. What I do is I kiss the way I'd want to be kissed and so far I havent had any complaints, and you will know if you are a bad kisser if you dont kiss again and if that happens, change something up.

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (6 December 2008):

petina1 agony auntWhen you meet the man yu are going to kiss, just enjoy the experience and follow his lead. Everyone kisses different to suit the person they are with, there is no set way, it all comes softly and naturally. Good Luck. Hope this helps.

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