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writes:So i have 2 questions basically and i need some advice...my gf got topless for me couple days ago, but her nipples didn't get hard at all nd i tried everything, kissed the, sucked on them touched them and kissed her body... by the way we didnt have sex yet and she`s a virgin. How can i make her nipples get hard?And my second is that when i was fingering her, when my hand got down there i felt alot of hair which kinda put me off because i was not expecting it at all. Im sure there will come a time when she`ll go down on me and i`ll have to do the same thing but if she doesn't shave i doubt i`ll be able to do it... What can i do in this case?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2009): Answer to the 1st question. As far as i know thats normal. i've noticed when im horny they dont go hard all the time but it doesnt mean im not enjoying it at all... or maybe its because she's a virgin and gets nervous doing other things too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): Usually if you put water on them or it's cold they go hard.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): nipples dont always go hard. As a girl, most of the time mine dont, but it doesnt mean im not turned on. You could ask her what she likes. talk about what you both enjoy. it'll help both of you, and make u more comfy and open with each other.As for the hair...i agree with the "too much porn" comments. Women naturally have hair, much like men. And most women prefer not to shave because of the hassle and the itch that follows. From experience, I know that experimenting down below left me very uncomfortable and itchy for a few days, in which time i didnt even really want my boyfriend to touch me. Hers or your hair wont itch you during sex. To be honest, you'll be enjoying it, so u wont even notice. It's her body, and you should love it the way it is, just like she accepts yours. But try and talk about things like this with each other.It'll help :)
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reader, blueys491 +, writes (1 May 2009):
 As for the nip question, you can flicking, squeezing, pinching...but as said before be careful some girls will not find any of that pleasurable...
As for the second question, its ok to be put off by pubes, everyone knows they arent the most beautiful thing in the world. The most you can do is ask her about (but make sure to not pressure her it is her decision). You could even bring up the fact that she doesnt have to completely shave but maybe just trim?
hope that helps : )
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reader, woeizmex +, writes (30 April 2009):
woeizmex is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok you guys kind of got me wrong here a little bit...
1st: i thought there might be something "special" to get them hard and not rock hard lol
2nd: when i said hair i meant an inch... and is not really that it bothers me that much but when having sex im afraid it will hurt her... and especially the first time...
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reader, pebble  +, writes (29 April 2009):
 Rck hard nipples? Shaved?
Sounds like someone's been watching too much porn.
Have you any idea how much hassle it is for a woman to keep herself shaved down below? Firstly, there's the sharp razor you're putting near your bits, then there's razor burn, then there's ingrown hairs, itchy regrowth, stubble and then the process has to start all over again. Just to keep you satisfed.
Sorry dude, but the majority of women have hair, so you might just have to get over it. Time to put the nasty videos away and meet the real woman.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): 1st.Girls nipples don't always go hard,wether they are turned on or not and 2nd. If you like a shaven haven tell her but by no means pressure her...it is her body!!!I think you have watched to many porn films!!!Heres where you learn about a REAL sexual relationship!!!!!Good luck!!!!
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reader, Brenna36 +, writes (29 April 2009):
 If she is a kinky girl try squeezing or pinching them. If she isnt then DO NOT even try this. But you never know most girls look nice and sweet but inside the have extreamly kinky thoughts.
Second every girl has pubic hair its normal and if she does shave it she will be extreamly itchy down there for 2-3 days. you'll just have to learn to get over urself on that one. Sorry, my bf had to also.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): 1st question: Not all nipples get hard. If you want to get them erect try flicking them. Same result, different cause. Much different reaction though - probably a clout upside your left earhole.
2nd question: They're her pubes and it's up to her whether she shaves them off or not.
If you're not willing to go down on her unless she shaves them off, don't expect her to do likewise unless you shave yours off - and bloody good luck to you shaving around your testicles. Have you ever tried to shave a prune without slicing it open?
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