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writes:hey.i'm 14 and theres a teacher at my school that i really like, he doesnt teach me for any lessons, i just want to say hi to him but i'm really shy. will he think its weird because i havent really spoken to him before.sorry if this seems like im making a big fuss over nothing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2009): Wait until you are 18, then ask him out for a drink x. :) Teacher/student relations are never fun, they are complicated and horrible and mess up everyone's lives. Much easier when they arent your teacher anymore. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2009): well i'm confused... do you want to just say hi? or be friends with him or what?
i mean... depending on what subject he teaches... you could ask him for help on some homework or something, then afterwards you'd have more of an excuse to say hi to him i guess :)
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reader, confused girl xxx +, writes (10 May 2009):
just go for it and smile at him when you pass then gradually work up to say hi:)
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reader, MidnightSky +, writes (9 May 2009):
 hey chick :)i think you should totally go for it, i adore one of my teachers, wel technically he dosen't teach me anything apart from guitar after school lol, but i like to think were friends :P im in year ten and only started to really like him in year ten and at some point i must have said hi and stuff becasue we talk at guitar lessons and if he sees me and my friend who likes him too he'll smile and wave or do a crazy grin and ask how we are (but he's generally liek that lol :])you could make a plan with your friends and walk down the corridor where he goes or something and be all laughing about and just say hi as you go past and he'll think it was sweet lol, not weird. i guarantee!you'll be dead pleased once you've done it, what have you got to lose?x
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (29 April 2009):
 This is just a harmless crush on your past. Few people go through their teenage years without having feelings for someone in authority, but you cannot act on how you feel. The basic facts are that this man is attractive because he in unobtainable and in a position of authority as a teacher. In the UK, there are various laws in place to prevent teachers from having relationships with pupils (it is called 'breach of trust'). This is rightly so because the law recognises that teachers are in fact in a position of professional responsibility over their pupils and should not abuse that position. The fact that you are under 16 would also make this trouble-some as you would never be able to consent to an adult relationship. You may fancy him, but if he responded it would make him a creep and a sexual predator rather than a lovely teacher.
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (29 April 2009):
 okay i personally wouldn't encourage this, if anybody takes this the wrong way he and you could get into serious trouble. however if you were still going to go through with it you could with a friend and be like oh hi sir. but i really wouldn't recommend it x
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