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19 years old...is sex with my 16 yo gf wrong??

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Question - (20 January 2008) 13 Answers - (Newest, 8 December 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am an 19 year old and im currently in a relationship with a 16 year old girl.

I am in madly in love with her and i have never felt this way about anyone else. I've been with her for over 6 months now and we are ready for sex, but im not sure whether this could be considered wrong or not, and i really need help!

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A female reader, Nekigal18 United States +, writes (8 December 2008):

I don't see anything wrong if the love is strong.

If she trusts you don't break that trust by breaking up with her after because she can say you raped her because she was mad. When I was 17 I had sex with a man that was 19 and then i found out he bot back together with his ex but I found out to late I was 18 so i couldn't get him for statutory rape. All i can say be safe and wish you best

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A male reader, woo United Kingdom +, writes (2 June 2008):

hi i am 19 and gf is 16 and no there is nothing wrong with it people will say there is but is jealousy love is love just make sure you have protection and i dnt mean a bat a condom. be carfull and have fun and never ly to a women just to get ya leg over

have fun

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008):

Eyaaa

Theres nothing wrong with that at all i dont think

my boyfriend is 21 and im 16

theres nothing wrong with us

xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2008):

Nope.There's nothing wrong with it. 16 is legal in the UK, and It's only 3 years. So don't worry about it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2008):

hilo...:]

well i see nothing wrong with it!

i am 16 and i have sex with a 19yo

guy. but just be carful. cuz as u kno ur not

under age anymore! and she is.

but i really dont think

it should matter if you 2 really love eachother!

good luck.

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A female reader, 88jane United Kingdom +, writes (21 January 2008):

88jane agony auntas the other posts have said, 16 years old is the age of consent so it isnt illegal for the two of you to have sex!

just make sure that you are both 100% ready, if you have any doubts i think you should wait until they are gone, you will both feel more happy about it in the end! just dont rush into anything!

please please please please use a condom-to protect yourselves from pregnancy and anything else!

after all this, if you do decide you are both ready to do it, then just have fun and enjoy yourselves!!!! just take it slow!!!

good luck!

xxxx

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A female reader, Sex Kitten Saint Helena +, writes (20 January 2008):

Sex Kitten agony auntNo, it's not wrong! 16 is the legal age and as long as your girlfriend also wants to have sex with you then it's perfectly normal okay. Good luck and have fun!

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A male reader, Dr Vendetta United Kingdom +, writes (20 January 2008):

Dr Vendetta agony aunt16 is legal here in the UK.

personally.. i prefer my girls with a strong head on their shoulders and anyone under 23 has never done it for me.

i guess the only things i have left to say.

Don't force her into it.

Let her want to do it for her.. and not for you.

and finally.

Use A CONDOM or i will hunt you down and cut it off.

got it?

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A female reader, dummyduckling United Kingdom +, writes (20 January 2008):

dummyduckling agony auntthere is nothing wrong with it if you are both in love. just make sure you do use protection and that it is somewhere special as uncle phil said. first time sex is a magical moment and i hope you both enjoy it

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (20 January 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntSex is between two people who loves each other. You have to decide for your own self if it is right or wrong for there are two school of thoughts.

If you know the answer , then you are right .

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2008):

Nothing wrong with it at all. Just make sure she's the one doing the asking, and that she's not doing it just to please you and keep you interested!

The first time should be something very special so make sure the setting and the occasion is perfect - like NOT the back seat of a car or something similar.

Phil

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (20 January 2008):

kenny agony auntNo i don't think this is wrong, there is only 3 years between the pair of you, and its all legal, she is at the age of concent. The age gap sounds quite big at the moment because she is only 16, but in a few years, like when she is 18 and you are 21 its not even noticiable. If you really like her, and she really likes you and things feel right then go for it.

Good luck

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A female reader, cheekyloz3 United Kingdom +, writes (20 January 2008):

heloo!

look it is up to you so she is a few years younger it dont matter

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