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writes:a few months ago i found about 20 videos in the recycle bin of the computer i share with my 24 year old boyfriend of porn featuring mature women. i thought this was a bit strange however i put it to the back of my mind. Recently I discovered that on 2 occasions while i was out, my boyfriend had typed 'busty mature' and 'busty granny porn' into a search engine and gone on to look at the relevant porn sites which came up. I looked at the sites briefly and I cant understand how he could find that sort of thing attractive at all. We have a fantastic relationship (although I am neither old nor busty) and he is very popular 'normal' guy. I have no problem with him looking at porn or masturbating however i cant help feel shocked by the weirdness of it. Should I talk to him about it? Should I be worried about this (particularly the granny porn)?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for all your comments. They have really helped reassure me! He is a really decent guy and we have a really fantastic relationship otherwise. I didn't mean to offend anyone by implying that older women aren't attractive. Of course all women are gorgeous!! However in my naive little world I guess I just didn't even contemplate the extent of the male mind! He's not the type to stray or look at anything illegal so I'm not worried on that front. He's totally loved up over me all the time so I think this was just a little blip! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2008): to be honest dont worry . Im heading for 40 and looking better than I ever did at 20...frankly I look at the 20 year old typical porn stars and wonder why a man would ever be interested in an inexperienced kid like that.......their all feathers and no substance....perhaps your man has more sophiticated tastes and perfers a woman who's lived a little
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2008): Have you seen pictures of Dolly Parton recently? She's 62 and old enough to be most peoples' granny.
If she's a pertinent example of a granny, I don't think you've much to be worried about!
Phil
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2008): Don't be worried, it's just how his brain is wired. He is obviously embarrased by it and doesn't want to share it with you. Of course if he acts (cheats) upon these ideas you've got trouble on your hands, but it just sounds like his curiosity has gone places you did not think they would. If all else is well, no worries about it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2008): All blokes seem to go through fads, so stop worrying, and hey i am getting on a bit and look fab for my age so watch it!!! Only kidding. Dont worry, there is nothing in it.
take care
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (20 January 2008):
 Hey!! I'm 48 and still look good for my age. We dont all go to pot you know.
Only joking with you, dont worry its nothing. He is just going through a fad like the other aunt said.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (20 January 2008):
 There is no cause to worry , it is just a fad.The men would like to see all varieties and broaden their knowledge.It is not weird but at least he knows what it is like when he gets old with you.LOL!
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