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writes:Ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for three months and it is going really well. We have run into an issue while having sex. It is usually amazing but for some reason he can't keep it up. He's a healthy 18 yr. old so this is totally weird if any one has any ideas of what may be causing it or how fix the problem any and all ideas would be helpful thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): probably he is stressed because something is worrying him like fear of getting you pregnant or feeling sex outside marriage is wrong or simply he doesn't want to get too involved with you.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (22 December 2009):
 Are the governments putting something in the water? There seems to be an unexplained and increased issue with healthy young men unable to hold an erection. Extreme stress, worry or performance anxiety might affect the ability to remain erect for some, but otherwise, guys usually can get rock hard with their woman until medical, medication or severe psychological issues arise. There seems to be no rational explanation here.
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reader, anotherjoeshmoe +, writes (22 December 2009):
First off, stop drinking then having sex. That will definitely affect a man's "sprungness". Next, just a little something I use exclusively when I'm taking too long (say 45 minutes), tell him to hold his breath. No joke, that shit works. I can be drunk as fuck, barely getting it up, but then if I start holding my breath it'll be done in no time. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): in my experience, if my hubby has problems its due to stress...they say that the biggest sex organ is the one between the ears. True at my house. Mal
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