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writes:well im almost 16 years old and i already had sex with 2 guys, i feel like even though i have had sex multiple times im still not ready, they both had like small penises and even then it always hurt a little when it went in, and this weekend im going to this dance at my school and im having my date sleep over and i really like him and i really want to have sex with him but i feel like if i do then i might be tight and he might be like weirded out by it just because im suppose to have some experience on it and also idn how to have "good" sex, PLEASE HELP ASAP!!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2008): Best wishes for you sweetheart, you will be better served by waiting awhile for someone who really loves you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks everyone for helping me out, i decided to wait and i didnt have sex with him =) i feel much better now and i guess ill just wait for the right person to really start opening up more but im happy the way things turned out:) tahnks again really it helped
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2008): You won't get experienced having sex once with different guys. Your never going to find out what you really like. When you're in a loving relationship for a long time, that's when you become experienced and know how to pleasure that other person and learn different ways to do it...
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reader, Mzclarke +, writes (6 February 2008):
 Well im 18 and I only slept with one guy..But I know a lot about this subject... I think you should wait your mind might be telling you that im ready but in your heart is using excuses like being tight....You might be tight but I think your just not ready to sleep with another guy yet...No matter how many guys you sleep with...If your were really ready you would have no doubt...Follow your heart hunny : }
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2008): This best possible advice is for you to wait awhile, at least another year or more, before you expand on your sex life. You don't like such advice, but it would result in avoiding youthful pregnancy, drastic change in your future life, potential sexual disease, years of emotional distress and more sadness than you can imagine at this time.But I know those hormones are surging right now, and you likely will ignore common sense and well, best wishes . . .
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