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writes:Please take the time to hear me out..and please dont judge me.Im 14 Years old and I think i'm pregnant. My period came down July 27, 2008 And Went Back Up August 1st. My boyfriend And I had sex July 11 and 12, The first time we were unprotected but when he almost came, he put a condom on. The second time We had sex unprotected, but im not sure if he came or not. Then we had sex August 15, and he came in me. Im positive because i felt and seen it. Then we had unprotected sex the next day, and he came in me again. Then we had sex Saturday [August 23, 2008] He came in me 3 times. I've been having some symptoms..eating a lot, and different foods that i wouldnt eat before, tired, and lots of clear discharge. I know it too soon to take a home pregnancy test..what should I do? Could i be pregnant?
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reader, char xx  +, writes (26 August 2008):
i dnt agree with the negativity the last person has commented. im not much older than you an i have been in the same boat-ish, i no how scary it is to think your pregnant at this age, im not saying this is the right thing to do but this is what i did, i told my best mate because even though your parents are the best folk to speak to i couldnt do it. once you have spoken to someone about it you will feel a bit better,
if when you are due your period it is late then do not hesitate in taking a test and then for definite telling your parents.
but whatever the outcome always remember u must do what you feel is right for yourself and no-one else
hope all ends well chick
love xxx
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reader, Sweety Pie +, writes (26 August 2008):
 Well I would say the odds are against you seeing as you had unprotected sex so many times... seriously use a condom! But we are not to know they only way you will find out is if you take a test so just do that asap Good luck to you x
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reader, :):):) +, writes (26 August 2008):
I think the aunt you are talking about is just trying to make sure you are ok.
Good luck with whatever result you get, let us know how you get on!
xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank ALL Of you for this great advice, except the last. I take criticizim very well, but this last one i had to reply to. Why must you think so negative? I KNOW everyone has their own Point of view..but why look at it like that. I mean he is a great boyfriend. He's been here basically ALLLLL My life. And yes, for a while i will be alone. He'll Be going to the airforce once he graduates next year. 2 Years later I'll Be 18...able to live with him where ever he is stationed! And The Child [if im pregnant] Would be just starting school. I'll have some of his family support and most if mine. I Mean..Dont feel sorry for me. I dont need or want your pity. But to everyone else, You'll been a great deal of help. Its been great having someone to talk to, even though i dont know you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008): I think you could be looking for something that isnt there it could be because you think your pregnant thus your brain s making you do odd things you never know....the best thing for you to do is take a test asap, maybe go to your nearest sexual health clinic and see what they say.
If your not pregnant then you need to use a condom whenever you have sex, if your boyfried doesnt want to use one he obviously doesnt respect you enough to acknowlege that your sexual health is at risk.
If you are pregnant, you need to sort out what you plan to do, dont panic, but think about ALL your options.
i hope everything works out
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reader, :):):) +, writes (26 August 2008):
I wont critisise you as everybody makes mistakes and you now know how worrying it can be.
There is a possibility you could be pregnant, though it is a bit early to be showing symptoms. It could just be that you are 'looking' for symptoms as you are worried.
The earliest pregnancy tests can be taken 2-3 weeks after the time you had unprotected sex so wait till then. Cheap test are equally as good as expensive ones.
Bringing up a baby is a difficult at any age, especially when you are young and still at school.
If the test is positive, make sure you let your parents know and talk things through with an adult you trust.
And Im sure I dont really need to say it but make sure you use protection in future.
xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008): Hi I am a Mom of two boys. If I had a daughter I would pray that she would tell me. I know you are scared, but your parents are the people who you can always trust. They might be upset or mad at first but they will guide you in the right way. If you are pregnate they will find out. Better sooner then later. They will also be able to get you on birth control if you are not, but if you are they will have your best interest at heart. (Remember they gave birth to you.) Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008): Wow, you are defenitley to young to be even having sex and I am telling you this because I want you to know that it is wrong to do for someone your age...you can get stds from having unprotected sex...and yes you may be pregnant...if you had sex and he came in you three times then you are definetley pregnant...how are you going to tell your family??? How are you going to raise this baby at 14...and worse of all the guy who is having sex with you is going to leave you because ten out of ten times..he will feel that he is to young to be raising a child. I hope that you think really hard about what you did..because you will be left alone to raise this child without a father..and I really feel sorry for you and the child.
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