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writes:Approaching a year since I last had sex. I haven't really been tempted to have meaningless sex, or a one night stand or anything, because I'm told that sex is so much better with somebody you love. But after a year of celibacy, I'm really feeling open to all options. Just now, a one night stand feels like a great idea.What do you advise? I'd love to wait for somebody I care for, but I'm not sure how much longer I can wait. A one night stand feels on the cards, but is it really the best way to go. If so, any tips on how I make it happen?
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (16 May 2008):
 Hey,
One year, that is ages, so go for it! There is nothing to loose and nobody to hurt.
There are two different kinds of sex, both equally as great in their own way. Now is the time, not when you are with somebody else. I used to say I would if it had been ages and ages, so there you go!
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reader, previasc96  +, writes (27 April 2008):
You don't need to listen to that crap about sex is greater with someone you care for! When you sleep with someone you are in love with, it becomes making love. Making love is a whole different experience. You will have moments when you and your GF are both horny and have just sex, but once you get into a relationship, you'll see the difference between the two. Think about it... you ever hear a man say he "made love" to a prostitute? Men could have great sex without emotion attached but not all women can do that. You wanna be good in bed when you meet the right girl. Practice makes perfect!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008): If you have a one-night stand, you put yourself at the risk of getting an STD.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (27 April 2008):
 Whether you have a one-night stand or not is for you to decide. You're old enough to know what you do.
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